I messed up something wicked and haven't seen my fiancee for 3 days?

keep annoying the family with floods of phone calls and show your woman that you made a mistake and you were scared.. but definately DO NOT sit back and wait for her to come looking for you.. go to her work, leave letters on her car, send her flowers ... call every single one of her friends! :P Good luck, no matter what, the joy a child brings is so amazing.. you don't experience "love" until you have a child, believe me and someday you will understand that ! :D